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She was amazing, but our future become a really hard question.
I never thought religion can become big problem in dating until I met someone who I really like. We get along very well, same humor, same hobbies, and honestly she was one of the nicest person I ever meet. The problem only appear when we start talking about future.
She is religious and I am atheist. At first we don't think it will be big issue. We just enjoy spending time together. But later she start talking about marriage, family, and children. Then suddenly there was many questions we don't have answer for.
She want our future kids to follow her religion, and I understand why because it's important for her. But for me, I don't feel okay with forcing something I don't believe. Damn, it was hard because nobody was really wrong here. We just see life from very different place.
In the end we decide to stop because we know love alone cannot fix everything. I still think she is great person, and I don't hate her belief. Sometimes two good people can love each other but still cannot build same future.
Have you ever dated someone with very different belief? How did you handle it?
#religion
I never thought religion can become big problem in dating until I met someone who I really like. We get along very well, same humor, same hobbies, and honestly she was one of the nicest person I ever meet. The problem only appear when we start talking about future.
She is religious and I am atheist. At first we don't think it will be big issue. We just enjoy spending time together. But later she start talking about marriage, family, and children. Then suddenly there was many questions we don't have answer for.
She want our future kids to follow her religion, and I understand why because it's important for her. But for me, I don't feel okay with forcing something I don't believe. Damn, it was hard because nobody was really wrong here. We just see life from very different place.
In the end we decide to stop because we know love alone cannot fix everything. I still think she is great person, and I don't hate her belief. Sometimes two good people can love each other but still cannot build same future.
Have you ever dated someone with very different belief? How did you handle it?
#religion
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