How to deal with unwarranted comeback remarks? I know of…
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How to deal with unwarranted comeback remarks?
I know of someone who thinks on their feet, which can be good. They are the comeback kid. However, when I'm telling of something that happened, I get, "well I'd say", or "well, I'd tell them".
First of all, I didn't ask them for suggestions, but I guess telling them must open me up to these remarks. I've distanced myself because of this. Why does one have to have a conversation that ends up in a rebuttal. Half the time the person doesn't know the whole story or experience. It just sounds rude or snappy. I've been saying, "oh, I hear you," but it doesn't feel right for me. I think I need something more direct without hurting their feelings. Any suggestions?
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I know of someone who thinks on their feet, which can be good. They are the comeback kid. However, when I'm telling of something that happened, I get, "well I'd say", or "well, I'd tell them".
First of all, I didn't ask them for suggestions, but I guess telling them must open me up to these remarks. I've distanced myself because of this. Why does one have to have a conversation that ends up in a rebuttal. Half the time the person doesn't know the whole story or experience. It just sounds rude or snappy. I've been saying, "oh, I hear you," but it doesn't feel right for me. I think I need something more direct without hurting their feelings. Any suggestions?
#relationships
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