The honey moon phase CAN last forever, but people are…
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The honey moon phase CAN last forever, but people are bored and dissatisfied in their relationships and want to think that it doesn't to make themselves feel better about their meh relationship
I've met people (not tons but a few) madly in love still in the honey moon "phase" with their significant other, some of those couples are 40+ Years into their relationship.
I definitely think anyone can have a relationship "stuck" in honey moon phase.
It doesn't compete with "love" because people like to say" oh honey moon phase is not real love, it fades and the real love appears"
That's not true, you can have both.
I think when you are dissatisfied in your relationship it's triggering to see others that are still pretty much all over each other and to avoid self reflection and questioning your relationship, some people prefer to normalize their situation
"Yeah that's a phase it can't last forever"
"If it seems like they are still in it it's because they are not mature and don't really love each other"
But honestly it just means that you are no longer in the honeymoon phase, which is not wrong but it could be different, and normalizing a more settled relationship with less excitement won't get you anywhere if what you want is an exciting relationship.
#conversation
I've met people (not tons but a few) madly in love still in the honey moon "phase" with their significant other, some of those couples are 40+ Years into their relationship.
I definitely think anyone can have a relationship "stuck" in honey moon phase.
It doesn't compete with "love" because people like to say" oh honey moon phase is not real love, it fades and the real love appears"
That's not true, you can have both.
I think when you are dissatisfied in your relationship it's triggering to see others that are still pretty much all over each other and to avoid self reflection and questioning your relationship, some people prefer to normalize their situation
"Yeah that's a phase it can't last forever"
"If it seems like they are still in it it's because they are not mature and don't really love each other"
But honestly it just means that you are no longer in the honeymoon phase, which is not wrong but it could be different, and normalizing a more settled relationship with less excitement won't get you anywhere if what you want is an exciting relationship.
#conversation
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