It's a trap! When you think about how you should be a acting, you fall under a curse called the personality curse. You are never you, because you're constantly asking who "you" is. You keep trying to remember how you "would" act, or you imagine how you "could" act. The problem is ya ain't "acting". To act is to feel then to move. Youre hungry you stand up. Youre thirsty you reach for the shake. You're in a funny mood so you say the first thing that pops into your head. You wanna male plans you reach for the phone and then you write out the plan, spontaneously, as it comes to you, in the group chat. Youre shy but you wanna talk so you say the first thing that pops into your head, as you talk, without ever stopping to ask "what would 'I' say?" Im not saying you don't think. You just immediately kick out of your head, at every moment it appears, any thought of "how" you should act. Only think of "what" it is you want to do. Oh, and how to do it. The thing. It. Never think of how to do you. #relationships