How can I expand my social circle? I am in my first year…
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How can I expand my social circle?
I am in my first year of college and so far my social circle is super small. I have 2 guys that I met who I chill worth regularly and then a few people that I know that I greet whenever I see them but we rarely chill with. I do have my close friend who I went to school with my entire life Kindergarten to Grade 12 but I don’t really count him because I’ve known him for so long and I knew him long before college.
I want to make more friends now, I see people with large friend groups, guys and girls mixed etc and I’m not necessarily jealous but I do want that for myself. How do I expand and make more friends? I know people will say “just approach people” “go places” which makes sense but I have a bit of anxiety about trying to approach people.
A part of me feels like most people who are in friend groups aren’t really trying to make more or the friend groups are “full” or “closed” and I don’t want to invade on peoples groups idk
I must mention that I am a commuter to college and that I am only moving away at the start of next year so I don’t really have the dorm/accommodation experience.
Any suggestions or advice will help. I have been wanting to get rid of my approach anxiety but I feel like there’s never the right moment or I feel like I’m gonna be disturbing people.
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I am in my first year of college and so far my social circle is super small. I have 2 guys that I met who I chill worth regularly and then a few people that I know that I greet whenever I see them but we rarely chill with. I do have my close friend who I went to school with my entire life Kindergarten to Grade 12 but I don’t really count him because I’ve known him for so long and I knew him long before college.
I want to make more friends now, I see people with large friend groups, guys and girls mixed etc and I’m not necessarily jealous but I do want that for myself. How do I expand and make more friends? I know people will say “just approach people” “go places” which makes sense but I have a bit of anxiety about trying to approach people.
A part of me feels like most people who are in friend groups aren’t really trying to make more or the friend groups are “full” or “closed” and I don’t want to invade on peoples groups idk
I must mention that I am a commuter to college and that I am only moving away at the start of next year so I don’t really have the dorm/accommodation experience.
Any suggestions or advice will help. I have been wanting to get rid of my approach anxiety but I feel like there’s never the right moment or I feel like I’m gonna be disturbing people.
#relationships
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