Dating as an autistic is….. 29F. Wondering why I’m so…
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Dating as an autistic is…..
29F. Wondering why I’m so different than other women. The women around me, even the younger ones, are so much more successful at dating than I am. My friends/coworkers are always telling me about the guys they’re dating, or the ones that want to date them. I just don’t get why I’m so different.
I had my first date ever about two weeks ago. It went well (I thought) and we went on two more dates after. He abruptly ended it in the middle of planning our fourth date. I was waiting on confirmation for the plans we made and he just sent a text saying he was moving on. That’s fine, I didn’t bother him.
But now I’m just wondering why I’m SO different. Why is it so hard for me to get a relationship? I’m kind, I’m pretty, smart, capable, I have a good work ethic and just want to make people happy. I have good intentions. I’m a good person. I love to make people laugh and I want to see them smile. I just want to feel how it feels to be loved by someone that’s not obligated to love me. I want to be chosen. I wanna know what that feels like. I’m tired of being an outsider.
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29F. Wondering why I’m so different than other women. The women around me, even the younger ones, are so much more successful at dating than I am. My friends/coworkers are always telling me about the guys they’re dating, or the ones that want to date them. I just don’t get why I’m so different.
I had my first date ever about two weeks ago. It went well (I thought) and we went on two more dates after. He abruptly ended it in the middle of planning our fourth date. I was waiting on confirmation for the plans we made and he just sent a text saying he was moving on. That’s fine, I didn’t bother him.
But now I’m just wondering why I’m SO different. Why is it so hard for me to get a relationship? I’m kind, I’m pretty, smart, capable, I have a good work ethic and just want to make people happy. I have good intentions. I’m a good person. I love to make people laugh and I want to see them smile. I just want to feel how it feels to be loved by someone that’s not obligated to love me. I want to be chosen. I wanna know what that feels like. I’m tired of being an outsider.
#relationships
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