i broke up with him because of his girl best friend and…
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i broke up with him because of his girl best friend and now i don’t know if i overreacted
I know how this sounds, but hear me out. He had a girl best friend before we started dating, and I tried really hard to be okay with it. but it wasn’t just a normal friendship. They talked all the time, like constant updates about their day, sending each other everything.
There was one time we were out together, and he kept replying to her messages while I was literally sitting across from him. i brought it up, and he said I was overthinking and that she’s “like a sister,” but then I found out they used to have something before, and he never told me. After that, I just couldn’t look at it the same way. Everything felt off
We argued about it a few times, and every time it ended with me feeling likeIi was the problem for being “insecure”. eventually, I just ended it because I didn’t feel respected anymore. But now I keep second-guessing if I overreacted or if I should’ve tried to be more understanding. I’ve been trying not to reach out and even started using a no contact app (No Contact Tracker Pro) because I kept wanting to message him and “fix it.”
Was I wrong for ending it over this, or is this actually a valid reason
#relationships
I know how this sounds, but hear me out. He had a girl best friend before we started dating, and I tried really hard to be okay with it. but it wasn’t just a normal friendship. They talked all the time, like constant updates about their day, sending each other everything.
There was one time we were out together, and he kept replying to her messages while I was literally sitting across from him. i brought it up, and he said I was overthinking and that she’s “like a sister,” but then I found out they used to have something before, and he never told me. After that, I just couldn’t look at it the same way. Everything felt off
We argued about it a few times, and every time it ended with me feeling likeIi was the problem for being “insecure”. eventually, I just ended it because I didn’t feel respected anymore. But now I keep second-guessing if I overreacted or if I should’ve tried to be more understanding. I’ve been trying not to reach out and even started using a no contact app (No Contact Tracker Pro) because I kept wanting to message him and “fix it.”
Was I wrong for ending it over this, or is this actually a valid reason
#relationships
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