People keep asking how to get better at work, deal with stress, coworkers, all that. Simple — stop giving a damn so much.
Stay calm, talk slow, don’t worry about what people think. Ask questions, make mistakes, who cares. Be proactive, be bold. Even if you hate the job — just do it and move on.
You ask — they complain. You don’t ask — they still complain. You can’t win. Same people say “use your brain,” but would crash a plane in 5 minutes if you put them in the cockpit.
You WILL mess up. You WILL feel awkward. That’s normal.
Maybe the job’s for you, maybe it’s not — doesn’t matter. People will still say you suck. Let them.
Grow thick skin. Don’t let it get to you. And if someone disrespects you — remind them they don’t get to define you.