Is it wrong to stop chasing people due to lack of…
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Is it wrong to stop chasing people due to lack of reciprocal action?
I'm going to be honest. I'm not really good at keeping up with people, I try, I text them whenever I can and try to maintain contact if at any point I get a message. Lately I have noticed that people just don't seem to show the same level of interest on maintaining contact with you. I have texted people to see how they are doing, you know, keep the friendship alive, but I don't get texts from anyone unless I start the conversation. Nobody texts anymore if I don't contact them in a while.
So I just decided to cut people off since there is no reciprocal engagement. I always find myself being the one texting but never being the one receiving the text. Not sure if this not a good mentality to have, but I got tired of this as an adult. I sometimes wonder if I even have friends or these are just people that talk to you when they want something.
#relationships
I'm going to be honest. I'm not really good at keeping up with people, I try, I text them whenever I can and try to maintain contact if at any point I get a message. Lately I have noticed that people just don't seem to show the same level of interest on maintaining contact with you. I have texted people to see how they are doing, you know, keep the friendship alive, but I don't get texts from anyone unless I start the conversation. Nobody texts anymore if I don't contact them in a while.
So I just decided to cut people off since there is no reciprocal engagement. I always find myself being the one texting but never being the one receiving the text. Not sure if this not a good mentality to have, but I got tired of this as an adult. I sometimes wonder if I even have friends or these are just people that talk to you when they want something.
#relationships
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