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I need some advice
So my girlfriend is going through a rough phase in her life and I've been trying my best to help her. And obviously I'm there for her, it's my job as her girlfriend, but it feels like she's getting more and more extreme with the things she demands and what I should do.
Today for example when I went home (we live in different towns), she was having a complete breakdown and was crying so bad and I felt horrible. For context, I sleep over practically every day, since she can't sleep without me. and I barely have time for anything else but her (which is okay, but in the last month I could barely make any time for my hobbies).
When I'm with her she seems happier, but sometimes she just makes fun of me and my interests for no real reason or makes transphobic "jokes", which also hurt (I'm a trans girl). Therefore I barely get any sleep, because these things just keep me up all night.
She always demands that I cook for her and that I massage her and she's never in the mood for the things I suggest we do. And I feel like such a narcissist for even "complaining" about this, but nothing is ever enough and I'm really trying my best.
Adding to all of this, is that my family and I are also moving this year, so we'll be even further apart from each other and I have no idea how I'm supposed to balance school, a job, other friends and a relationship like that.
I don't know what to do anymore. I don't think I'm doing enough and that she deserves so much better. I genuinely need some advice or anything, because I have no idea what to do.
#adult
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So my girlfriend is going through a rough phase in her life and I've been trying my best to help her. And obviously I'm there for her, it's my job as her girlfriend, but it feels like she's getting more and more extreme with the things she demands and what I should do.
Today for example when I went home (we live in different towns), she was having a complete breakdown and was crying so bad and I felt horrible. For context, I sleep over practically every day, since she can't sleep without me. and I barely have time for anything else but her (which is okay, but in the last month I could barely make any time for my hobbies).
When I'm with her she seems happier, but sometimes she just makes fun of me and my interests for no real reason or makes transphobic "jokes", which also hurt (I'm a trans girl). Therefore I barely get any sleep, because these things just keep me up all night.
She always demands that I cook for her and that I massage her and she's never in the mood for the things I suggest we do. And I feel like such a narcissist for even "complaining" about this, but nothing is ever enough and I'm really trying my best.
Adding to all of this, is that my family and I are also moving this year, so we'll be even further apart from each other and I have no idea how I'm supposed to balance school, a job, other friends and a relationship like that.
I don't know what to do anymore. I don't think I'm doing enough and that she deserves so much better. I genuinely need some advice or anything, because I have no idea what to do.
#adult
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