How do I tell my friend "it'll get better" when we both…
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How do I tell my friend "it'll get better" when we both know that it'll take a while for things to get better
My friend has been in quite a few situation over the year, every time it feels like things are getting better, she just gets knocked down again.
Although we live in the same country, we go to different schools and live in different states and can only visit each other once a year, so most of our communication is through text.
I wasn't really good at comforting people until like earlier this year she called me out on this and I've been improving
I recently went on sort of a monologue
and I'm afraid that what I said was a bit worthless//naive//not comforting?
idk how to say it
I want to make her feel better, so like is there anything other than " I’m sorry that happened to you, but you did well; you are strong and I believe in you; I know it hurts but you are a smart person and will do it;" because after a certain point it feels the same as saying "damn bro that sucks"
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My friend has been in quite a few situation over the year, every time it feels like things are getting better, she just gets knocked down again.
Although we live in the same country, we go to different schools and live in different states and can only visit each other once a year, so most of our communication is through text.
I wasn't really good at comforting people until like earlier this year she called me out on this and I've been improving
I recently went on sort of a monologue
and I'm afraid that what I said was a bit worthless//naive//not comforting?
idk how to say it
I want to make her feel better, so like is there anything other than " I’m sorry that happened to you, but you did well; you are strong and I believe in you; I know it hurts but you are a smart person and will do it;" because after a certain point it feels the same as saying "damn bro that sucks"
#relationships
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