What decides whether you like new people in a group? hi…
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What decides whether you like new people in a group?
hi everyone, i guess the title already explains a lot.
It seems like i often get along with people on 1:1 conversations with no problem and they seem to at least enjoy the conversation.
Now since i moved to a new city i would like to meet new people and maybe even a group, but every time i’m part of a group, people just seem to not like me at all. For example i was meeting a person here (we barely knew each other at that time) and she said a few friends were also coming.
As soon as they got there i was trying to be nice, laugh about stories or jokes, sometimes even tell a short story from my life, listening to others, nod and say when i can relate.
I know i’m sort of a quiet person in groups, a little bit shy and not super loud, but i feel like that should not be the deal breaker right?
Well obviously didn’t get invited again (yes i know that’s sad) and i just wonder what i could do differently or what do you guys do to be liked by groups, how did you build friend groups?
Or if new people join your friend group, what makes you decide whether you like them or not?
#relationships
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hi everyone, i guess the title already explains a lot.
It seems like i often get along with people on 1:1 conversations with no problem and they seem to at least enjoy the conversation.
Now since i moved to a new city i would like to meet new people and maybe even a group, but every time i’m part of a group, people just seem to not like me at all. For example i was meeting a person here (we barely knew each other at that time) and she said a few friends were also coming.
As soon as they got there i was trying to be nice, laugh about stories or jokes, sometimes even tell a short story from my life, listening to others, nod and say when i can relate.
I know i’m sort of a quiet person in groups, a little bit shy and not super loud, but i feel like that should not be the deal breaker right?
Well obviously didn’t get invited again (yes i know that’s sad) and i just wonder what i could do differently or what do you guys do to be liked by groups, how did you build friend groups?
Or if new people join your friend group, what makes you decide whether you like them or not?
#relationships
source
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