30 and lost. I just turned 30, and I feel totally lost in…
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30 and lost.
I just turned 30, and I feel totally lost in life. As a woman, half of my friends are married and well into the family life with multiple kids. The other half are single, and or living life with their partners. All I do is work, and go home. I’m a waitress, work is hit or miss. I make enough to pay bills(a lot less than most my age, as I live with my grandmother in our family home that we’ve had since the early 50s) I definitely don’t make enough to be off on my own. I didn’t graduate college, life got bad and I moved out of state all within a month when I was 21. I’ve done retail management for 6 years, did the office job & now I’m back in the service industry. It gives me freedom, but with that freedom I have zero motivation. I literally wake up, go to work, get home and do absolutely nothing. I have my small hobbies like coloring, gaming, random little things like that. I’m wanting to get out of my comfort zone, join some clubs/organizations but I don’t even know what or where to look. A lot of the things seem more catered to the younger crowd, or the older crowd (I’m talking 18-25, and then 60+). I do the occasional social outings with friends, but when I’m out I don’t feel like I really belong there. It’s just like I’m there so I can be included in a way. I feel so far behind in life, and I hate it.
Edit- I truly appreciate everybody’s advice, and the messages I have received!! I also wish everybody who is feeling the same way, a happy and positive life!
#inspiration
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I just turned 30, and I feel totally lost in life. As a woman, half of my friends are married and well into the family life with multiple kids. The other half are single, and or living life with their partners. All I do is work, and go home. I’m a waitress, work is hit or miss. I make enough to pay bills(a lot less than most my age, as I live with my grandmother in our family home that we’ve had since the early 50s) I definitely don’t make enough to be off on my own. I didn’t graduate college, life got bad and I moved out of state all within a month when I was 21. I’ve done retail management for 6 years, did the office job & now I’m back in the service industry. It gives me freedom, but with that freedom I have zero motivation. I literally wake up, go to work, get home and do absolutely nothing. I have my small hobbies like coloring, gaming, random little things like that. I’m wanting to get out of my comfort zone, join some clubs/organizations but I don’t even know what or where to look. A lot of the things seem more catered to the younger crowd, or the older crowd (I’m talking 18-25, and then 60+). I do the occasional social outings with friends, but when I’m out I don’t feel like I really belong there. It’s just like I’m there so I can be included in a way. I feel so far behind in life, and I hate it.
Edit- I truly appreciate everybody’s advice, and the messages I have received!! I also wish everybody who is feeling the same way, a happy and positive life!
#inspiration
source
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