i just feel like whatever i do in social situations and stuff is wrong! i always feel too quiet and awkward, or too loud and bold, or too this or too that alllll the time. how do i fix this? is it a confidence thing? or maybe an identity thing? i hate it but i’m always trying to be the “right” kind of person based on how i feel, but that changes all the time. i’m also really worried i come across as unfriendly even though i do try, for example i know you shouldn’t compare but so many times me and a friend will meet someone at the exact same time but the other person will talk to them more or message them first etc etc #relationships