Why do breakup-initiators try texting again after? Weird…
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Why do breakup-initiators try texting again after?
Weird way to phrase the question, so let me elaborate: I got broken up with a few weeks ago, he suddenly decided to move this summer (and definitely has feelings for someone who lives there). We did not speak after the breakup conversation. Then the Grammys happened, a song I was obsessed with won, and he texted me after something like "your song won best country" (I have not replied)
I know this is a tale as old as time: the person who initiated the breakup finds some reason to attempt to make contact. This has happened to so many friends over the years, but it was still a shock to my system to see his name on my phone so soon after having my heart broken.
So my question is: why do they do this? If you've done this, I'd love to hear your perspective. I've heard a lot from friends who have been on my side of the situation, but I want to know what's going on in the brain of the person who did the breaking up but then still texted later.
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Weird way to phrase the question, so let me elaborate: I got broken up with a few weeks ago, he suddenly decided to move this summer (and definitely has feelings for someone who lives there). We did not speak after the breakup conversation. Then the Grammys happened, a song I was obsessed with won, and he texted me after something like "your song won best country" (I have not replied)
I know this is a tale as old as time: the person who initiated the breakup finds some reason to attempt to make contact. This has happened to so many friends over the years, but it was still a shock to my system to see his name on my phone so soon after having my heart broken.
So my question is: why do they do this? If you've done this, I'd love to hear your perspective. I've heard a lot from friends who have been on my side of the situation, but I want to know what's going on in the brain of the person who did the breaking up but then still texted later.
#relationships
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