I just got a new job away from home last month and me and my coworkers went out to the bars last night for fun. I’m usually really quiet, introverted, and reserved at work, but still a good person to talk to, yet at the bars, I got drunk big time and I was extremely social and open with everyone, even some new people from different departments who were coming in; I don’t get how my sober and drunk selves are such polar opposites of one another like one is super chill while the other is confident and loud while still maintaining that kindness. I say a lot of random stuff while drunk and even then, people love that. I had one coworker say, “you gotta bring this energy to work more often man, I love it!”. I’m inspired in trying to be more like that but i don’t really get what I need to do here to get to that point. Anybody dealing with the same thing or have advice? #relationships source