I feel bad for wanting more I (25F) met a wonderful man…
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I feel bad for wanting more
I (25F) met a wonderful man (29) about 4 months ago and we’ve become very close and even have a regular routine together. I hadn’t realized how much time had gone by till someone asked me if we’re official yet and I was embarrassed to say no we aren’t. It didn’t feel like a situationship but when I think about it it sort of is. We‘ve never been on a “real” date and him not asking me to be his girlfriend after so long is worrying. A year could go by and we’d still be in the same place, being with him has started to feel stagnant and I hate that. He’s so nice to me and so warm and I do kinda think I can’t do better given my track record of being with really mean men. I care about him so so much and he’s not in the best place financially right now so I’ve been understanding but 4 months is a long time. I just want real commitment and to also do new things with him not just hang out in my car like we do all the time. There’s no excitement and I feel so selfish for expecting more from him. I’m worried if I bring it up it’ll cause a rift and I don’t want to lose a good man but at the same time waiting for him to come up is uncertain.
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I (25F) met a wonderful man (29) about 4 months ago and we’ve become very close and even have a regular routine together. I hadn’t realized how much time had gone by till someone asked me if we’re official yet and I was embarrassed to say no we aren’t. It didn’t feel like a situationship but when I think about it it sort of is. We‘ve never been on a “real” date and him not asking me to be his girlfriend after so long is worrying. A year could go by and we’d still be in the same place, being with him has started to feel stagnant and I hate that. He’s so nice to me and so warm and I do kinda think I can’t do better given my track record of being with really mean men. I care about him so so much and he’s not in the best place financially right now so I’ve been understanding but 4 months is a long time. I just want real commitment and to also do new things with him not just hang out in my car like we do all the time. There’s no excitement and I feel so selfish for expecting more from him. I’m worried if I bring it up it’ll cause a rift and I don’t want to lose a good man but at the same time waiting for him to come up is uncertain.
#relationships
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