I’m too girly to hang out with guys, then again too boyish…
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I’m too girly to hang out with guys, then again too boyish to hang out with girls
I’ve felt this way for my whole life. As a kid I’d get offended by how rough boys would speak, but they’d never quite understand why I’d get offended. Then when I started hanging out with girls I couldn’t quite understand their emotions and behaviors.
My hobbies and interests include finding (an unhealthy amount of) new music and movies, writing songs, thrifting, cooking, makeup(occasionally) etc etc. Mostly conventionally girly stuffs but then I‘m also into conventionally boyish stuffs like their sense of humor and action flicks. It’s like I can never fit into either of the two groups. I wish I could find people I can wholeheartedly relate to. I mustn’t be alone in this. Can anybody give me a good advice?
(On a side note I don’t want this to cause any misunderstanding. I don’t belive in gender roles. But you’ve got to admit people mostly hang out with their own gender, and they face different social norms and situations, thus forming differing groups.)
#relationships
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I’ve felt this way for my whole life. As a kid I’d get offended by how rough boys would speak, but they’d never quite understand why I’d get offended. Then when I started hanging out with girls I couldn’t quite understand their emotions and behaviors.
My hobbies and interests include finding (an unhealthy amount of) new music and movies, writing songs, thrifting, cooking, makeup(occasionally) etc etc. Mostly conventionally girly stuffs but then I‘m also into conventionally boyish stuffs like their sense of humor and action flicks. It’s like I can never fit into either of the two groups. I wish I could find people I can wholeheartedly relate to. I mustn’t be alone in this. Can anybody give me a good advice?
(On a side note I don’t want this to cause any misunderstanding. I don’t belive in gender roles. But you’ve got to admit people mostly hang out with their own gender, and they face different social norms and situations, thus forming differing groups.)
#relationships
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