I have friends but still feel FOMO and overthink stuff in…
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I have friends but still feel FOMO and overthink stuff in college
For context, im a first year college student and a bit of an introvert... someone who finds peace in staying home at weekends and just relaxing by playing video games or watching my fav show.
The confusing part is despite having friends, hanging out sometimes , i still spiral a lot about social things. Im not alone or anything.
For ex, there's a girl i kinda like in my class, We talk sometimes and sometimes text about deep conversations and all.., so its not like we're strangers and she's genuinely nice. But she's part of a bigger, more social group in college that i just dont fit into. I dont think i could ever really belong in that group and cuz of this, i feel like there's an invisible wall there.
Another thing is even when i go out with my own friends and have a good time, seeing others insta stories still gives me FOMO. It makes me feel like everyone else is having a more exciting life in college than me.
So i wanted to ask if others feel this way even when they have friends?
How would u stop overthinking social situations like this?? and how can i start better conversations to make myself more interesting?
#relationships
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For context, im a first year college student and a bit of an introvert... someone who finds peace in staying home at weekends and just relaxing by playing video games or watching my fav show.
The confusing part is despite having friends, hanging out sometimes , i still spiral a lot about social things. Im not alone or anything.
For ex, there's a girl i kinda like in my class, We talk sometimes and sometimes text about deep conversations and all.., so its not like we're strangers and she's genuinely nice. But she's part of a bigger, more social group in college that i just dont fit into. I dont think i could ever really belong in that group and cuz of this, i feel like there's an invisible wall there.
Another thing is even when i go out with my own friends and have a good time, seeing others insta stories still gives me FOMO. It makes me feel like everyone else is having a more exciting life in college than me.
So i wanted to ask if others feel this way even when they have friends?
How would u stop overthinking social situations like this?? and how can i start better conversations to make myself more interesting?
#relationships
source
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