Is it too late to develop social skills/deep relationships…
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Is it too late to develop social skills/deep relationships in your late twenties?
I have always struggled maintaining friendships. Mostly because I’ve been addicted to the internet/video games for years.
Every time I want to stop my addiction and get myself out there, I just think of how inexperienced I am. I’ve also still don’t even know what my personality is. It changes with every person I meet. I also find myself reacting in ways I think people want me to react (or conventionally). I don’t know if this is because of hyper vigilance or something else.
I just feel like there is something wrong with me. I want to get better but I feel like people will see how boring I am and not want to be my friend.
I know the reality is this: I am going to keep getting older. I can either be socially awkward now or socially awkward when I am 50. But it just feels hard when I don’t even know what my personality is.
#relationships
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I have always struggled maintaining friendships. Mostly because I’ve been addicted to the internet/video games for years.
Every time I want to stop my addiction and get myself out there, I just think of how inexperienced I am. I’ve also still don’t even know what my personality is. It changes with every person I meet. I also find myself reacting in ways I think people want me to react (or conventionally). I don’t know if this is because of hyper vigilance or something else.
I just feel like there is something wrong with me. I want to get better but I feel like people will see how boring I am and not want to be my friend.
I know the reality is this: I am going to keep getting older. I can either be socially awkward now or socially awkward when I am 50. But it just feels hard when I don’t even know what my personality is.
#relationships
source
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