Do guys intentionally delay sex when they want something…
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Do guys intentionally delay sex when they want something serious?
Hi everyone, I’m (F late 30s) trying to figure out a guy’s perspective on "the wait."
I recently met someone I really like. On our first date, he asked how I was doing on the apps, and I was honest: I told him I’m tired of younger guys just looking for hookups. I’m looking for something serious.
A bit of context: He’s divorced (as of last year). I originally swore off divorced men after being ghosted 3 months into a relationship with one, but in your late 30s, it’s hard to avoid.
On our second date, I invited him back to my place, but specifically said "just to chill and have a couple of beers because I have work tomorrow." He didn't make a single move, no pressure, no testing boundaries. While I’m happy about this because I *want* to delay sex to build a connection, it’s left me wondering:
Do guys intentionally hold back when they see long term potential? Or is he just being respectful of the "work tomorrow" boundary I set? Would love to hear from guys who have done this!
#relationships
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Hi everyone, I’m (F late 30s) trying to figure out a guy’s perspective on "the wait."
I recently met someone I really like. On our first date, he asked how I was doing on the apps, and I was honest: I told him I’m tired of younger guys just looking for hookups. I’m looking for something serious.
A bit of context: He’s divorced (as of last year). I originally swore off divorced men after being ghosted 3 months into a relationship with one, but in your late 30s, it’s hard to avoid.
On our second date, I invited him back to my place, but specifically said "just to chill and have a couple of beers because I have work tomorrow." He didn't make a single move, no pressure, no testing boundaries. While I’m happy about this because I *want* to delay sex to build a connection, it’s left me wondering:
Do guys intentionally hold back when they see long term potential? Or is he just being respectful of the "work tomorrow" boundary I set? Would love to hear from guys who have done this!
#relationships
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