Advice Hi, I'm hoping maybe someone here has been in a…
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Hi, I'm hoping maybe someone here has been in a similar situation as me and can give some advice. I have been struggling on knowing if I'm a lesbian or not for a long time but I knew I was bi when I was 15 and have dated a few women as an adult but it never really got intimate/serious with any of them. I've only had long term relationships with men and I'm actually with a man right now I've been with for almost 2 years. My past relationships with men were very toxic and I think now that I've been in a healthy relationship I've just had time to figure out what I want. But I just feel so uncertain because I do think I am a lesbian, I prefer the company of women and think I would prefer to be intimate with them as well. My boyfriend I decided to date because I had a feeling he was healthy and was tired of the same cycle. But I don't know if I was ever attracted to him and now alot of the stuff he does grosses me out. But im like, if im not attracted to men then why have I enjoyed sex with men? So I am just stuck. I feel like I should leave because I talked to my therapist and told her id feel relieved if we broke up but I just am worried that im being bipolar and am going to ruin my life for no reason. I dont know sorry for the long rant but I'm just hoping there's people here who may have had a similar experience and can give me some advice. It would be much appreciated.
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Hi, I'm hoping maybe someone here has been in a similar situation as me and can give some advice. I have been struggling on knowing if I'm a lesbian or not for a long time but I knew I was bi when I was 15 and have dated a few women as an adult but it never really got intimate/serious with any of them. I've only had long term relationships with men and I'm actually with a man right now I've been with for almost 2 years. My past relationships with men were very toxic and I think now that I've been in a healthy relationship I've just had time to figure out what I want. But I just feel so uncertain because I do think I am a lesbian, I prefer the company of women and think I would prefer to be intimate with them as well. My boyfriend I decided to date because I had a feeling he was healthy and was tired of the same cycle. But I don't know if I was ever attracted to him and now alot of the stuff he does grosses me out. But im like, if im not attracted to men then why have I enjoyed sex with men? So I am just stuck. I feel like I should leave because I talked to my therapist and told her id feel relieved if we broke up but I just am worried that im being bipolar and am going to ruin my life for no reason. I dont know sorry for the long rant but I'm just hoping there's people here who may have had a similar experience and can give me some advice. It would be much appreciated.
#adult
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