How to ask my friend why she doesn’t ask more about what’s…
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How to ask my friend why she doesn’t ask more about what’s happening in my life in a nice way?
I love my friends. They’re my chosen family so naturally whatever they tell me about their lives I always ask 1M questions.
I’ve started noticing that a particular friend doesn’t really ask stuff when I tell her things?
I’m not much of a yapper, I have a lot of friends that are and I do prefer it that way tbh but then when I do have something exciting that’s happened to me and they just say nice! Or something then it does make me believe that I’m just boring (and in turn I talk less about myself and the loop continues).
What can I do to change this? Should I just accept it? I dont want to build resentment about this but I’m not sure how to bring it up with that friend without just flat out telling her I think she’s a bit self centered.
Any tips on dissolving this pattern with future friends?
I guess I just sort of assumed they’d show the same energy once I finally had something interesting going on in my life and shared it with them
#relationships
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I love my friends. They’re my chosen family so naturally whatever they tell me about their lives I always ask 1M questions.
I’ve started noticing that a particular friend doesn’t really ask stuff when I tell her things?
I’m not much of a yapper, I have a lot of friends that are and I do prefer it that way tbh but then when I do have something exciting that’s happened to me and they just say nice! Or something then it does make me believe that I’m just boring (and in turn I talk less about myself and the loop continues).
What can I do to change this? Should I just accept it? I dont want to build resentment about this but I’m not sure how to bring it up with that friend without just flat out telling her I think she’s a bit self centered.
Any tips on dissolving this pattern with future friends?
I guess I just sort of assumed they’d show the same energy once I finally had something interesting going on in my life and shared it with them
#relationships
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