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I feel frustrated with how every potential partner is…

I feel frustrated with how every potential partner is lacking something

Not physically, I don't care for looks much. But personality-wise, and emotionally. I met 3 guys lately. One gives me constant attention, constant compliments, tells me he loves me (it's been 3 weeks lol he's a bit dramatic). The second man is the very poetic "you've changed me, I became better because of you" type, he changed his lockscreen to a picture of my eyes, sends me paragraphs of validation.

But neither of them gives me the mental stimulation. The third one takes things slow, we have deep conversations that last hours, we talk about philosophy, religion, his mind is very beautiful. But there's no obsession from first sight on his part, no "we're gonna get married one day", there are days where he doesn't answer me for hours. Right now, I've been on seen for 17h and it makes me miss those conversations with him.

I wish I could mix the good traits of all these men into one man who would be perfect for me. The instant obsession of the first man, the "i'm better because of you" of the second man, the texting pattern of them both, and the mental chemistry of the third one, the way how we never run out of topics to talk about. Because I fascinate the first two men, but the third man also fascinates me.
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