for starters im a young female, not some creepy older man. i dmed the female bartender at a bar i frequent at asking if she'd ever want to hangout sometime. no answer over text so the next time i saw her i told her i had messaged and asked if she wanted to hang. she said she'd be down and told me she'd be avaiable on such and such day. that day arrives and i get a message from her saying that she's sorry but she doesnt like to mix work with her personal life and that its a boundary for her. why couldnt she have told me this before? i dont think i said or did anything weird between the day i asked her and the day we were supposed to hangout. im feeling really anxious now. #relationships