Jealous of friends groups mixing My husband and others ive…
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Jealous of friends groups mixing
My husband and others ive mentioned this to have told me I’m being crazy. But have you ever felt jealous of your friends making connections with your other friends?
I introduced my girlfriends from work to my long-time friends and slowly over the years they have bonded and will chat and have a good time together when I invite both groups to the same things. All good, and happy to see it. But now one girlfriend has started going to the gym with another girlfriend from the other group regularly. And they’re getting really close and their relationship is independent of me. which I know I should be fine with but honestly i would prefer if they stayed casual friends.
So the other day this work friend says something along the lines of “… now that we are equal friends \[with person Y\]…” and i was kind of rude and laughed and said something like “yeah in 5 more years you can be equal friends “.
Why am i feeling territorial?? I think I just need someone to reframe this for me bc I know I’m being jealous and negative. its not right, but I cant stop feeling this way
TLDR: Help im almost 30 and but socially like a toddler
#relationships
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My husband and others ive mentioned this to have told me I’m being crazy. But have you ever felt jealous of your friends making connections with your other friends?
I introduced my girlfriends from work to my long-time friends and slowly over the years they have bonded and will chat and have a good time together when I invite both groups to the same things. All good, and happy to see it. But now one girlfriend has started going to the gym with another girlfriend from the other group regularly. And they’re getting really close and their relationship is independent of me. which I know I should be fine with but honestly i would prefer if they stayed casual friends.
So the other day this work friend says something along the lines of “… now that we are equal friends \[with person Y\]…” and i was kind of rude and laughed and said something like “yeah in 5 more years you can be equal friends “.
Why am i feeling territorial?? I think I just need someone to reframe this for me bc I know I’m being jealous and negative. its not right, but I cant stop feeling this way
TLDR: Help im almost 30 and but socially like a toddler
#relationships
source
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