I Over Analyze Things I Say. I’m 18f and I struggle…
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I Over Analyze Things I Say.
I’m 18f and I struggle making/keeping friends ever since middle school and now being in college I am still dealing with the same issue. Whenever I have made friends it’s always been school friends never anyone wanting to hang out besides just school and apart of that was also my problem. I didn’t know how to ask someone to hang-out and was scared of being rejected or not knowing if they wanted the same friendship level as me so I just didn’t ask. Now even when I do make a friend I overanaylze every conversation I had with them "oh I shouldn’t have said that” "they probably think im weird now" "that wasn’t funny at all" and so on and than I just refuse to talk after because I don’t want to make the same mistake even if they don’t say anything went wrong. im stuck in my head all the time even when texting them I tried to write a simple message and change it about 19 times because I might come off as weird and than in the end I don’t send the text anyways. How can I fix this?
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I’m 18f and I struggle making/keeping friends ever since middle school and now being in college I am still dealing with the same issue. Whenever I have made friends it’s always been school friends never anyone wanting to hang out besides just school and apart of that was also my problem. I didn’t know how to ask someone to hang-out and was scared of being rejected or not knowing if they wanted the same friendship level as me so I just didn’t ask. Now even when I do make a friend I overanaylze every conversation I had with them "oh I shouldn’t have said that” "they probably think im weird now" "that wasn’t funny at all" and so on and than I just refuse to talk after because I don’t want to make the same mistake even if they don’t say anything went wrong. im stuck in my head all the time even when texting them I tried to write a simple message and change it about 19 times because I might come off as weird and than in the end I don’t send the text anyways. How can I fix this?
#relationships
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