What I would never understand is why some people(specifically a lot of men) are so quick to jump back into dating if you just got out of a relationship! In my late 20’s and I just do not understand. On the app’s someone I’m genuinely interested and thinks looks good I would talk to and then next thing you know they’re like “ I recently got out of a relationship 6 months, 5 months, 4 months, 2 months, a week, 10 seconds ago”. 😭😭
So please take TIME TO HEAL and not go quick into dating because you’re not about to waste my time, just want “fwb” and or I’ll be a rebound.
I pray for the ones that genuinely want love. It’s just so hard to find. This era doesn’t even know how to love properly. You have people now a days that rush into relationships and not even genuinely just in it. These “friends with benefits” and “hookups” ideas are lame as well. You aren’t about to use me. Where are the people that actually want to date and truly grow with someone? Where are the people who ARE emotionally available healed, and most importantly; ready ? #relationships source