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Why do some girls say they hate hookups and are tired of them yet continue to do it?
I’m a guy and I don’t hook up. I’ve turned down probably 10-15 people for it because it’s not what my values lie with. I always wait to have sex with people until at least a few dates in so the person I’m dating is comfortable and will enjoy it. This actually has proven to work really well for me and results in probably 80-90% of the people I meet to want to want to continue going out.
However I found from a several of the girls I date that they’re so tired of hookups and being used for sex. Which 100% makes sense and I totally get that because I hate hookups too. Yet some of these women just keep hooking up and are miserable from it. I’ve kept in touch with most of the women I stop dating because we usually end things on good terms. Several of them have told me that they’re so tired of all the hookups most guys seem to try for and they just do it with them anyways.
So basically I’m just confused why. I know plenty of girls who value intimacy and have said no to plenty of hookups yet I’ve met others who just keep doing it even though they despise it.
I’m a guy and I don’t hook up. I’ve turned down probably 10-15 people for it because it’s not what my values lie with. I always wait to have sex with people until at least a few dates in so the person I’m dating is comfortable and will enjoy it. This actually has proven to work really well for me and results in probably 80-90% of the people I meet to want to want to continue going out.
However I found from a several of the girls I date that they’re so tired of hookups and being used for sex. Which 100% makes sense and I totally get that because I hate hookups too. Yet some of these women just keep hooking up and are miserable from it. I’ve kept in touch with most of the women I stop dating because we usually end things on good terms. Several of them have told me that they’re so tired of all the hookups most guys seem to try for and they just do it with them anyways.
So basically I’m just confused why. I know plenty of girls who value intimacy and have said no to plenty of hookups yet I’ve met others who just keep doing it even though they despise it.
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