How does everyone find so many people to date? I’ve been…
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How does everyone find so many people to date?
I’ve been single for 6 years now and have very very rarely had anything close to romance or dating these last 6 years but the guys who have lead me on and broke my heart make it seem like it’s so easy to find someone else..they make me fall in love with them and then they leave me before we even get a chance to see if something could really be there and they tell me “you’ll have no problem finding someone else”.
Venting to friends about how difficult it is being single for so long, or being hurt after something that seemed hopeful doesn’t work out, and they always say “just go find someone else!” Like it’s so easy!
I see like one interesting guy probably once a year, and they usually don’t want me back, and when they do it never comes to fruition. How are people finding sooo many people to date that they feel there are so many fish in the sea? Even on the apps everyone is so weird or not my type and when I do find a guy who seems nice and it’s my type he doesn’t match with me, or if he does, he doesn’t ask me out. (I’m aware this may seem shallow, I don’t mean to sound that way but this is not one of those scenarios of women only liking the top 2% of guys on the apps. I like a guy that looks like he would be nice and genuine and would have things to talk about…not bulky gym bros flashing their money with cars or their six packs).
My self worth is so incredibly low now to know that everyone I’ve had any sort of romantic feelings for let me go so easily but apparently thought I was such a “pretty and lovely“ girl. Obviously if they let go of me that easily then they must have no problem finding other girls who are as “pretty and lovely” as me as they say.
Where does everyone find all of these dateable people???
#relationships
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I’ve been single for 6 years now and have very very rarely had anything close to romance or dating these last 6 years but the guys who have lead me on and broke my heart make it seem like it’s so easy to find someone else..they make me fall in love with them and then they leave me before we even get a chance to see if something could really be there and they tell me “you’ll have no problem finding someone else”.
Venting to friends about how difficult it is being single for so long, or being hurt after something that seemed hopeful doesn’t work out, and they always say “just go find someone else!” Like it’s so easy!
I see like one interesting guy probably once a year, and they usually don’t want me back, and when they do it never comes to fruition. How are people finding sooo many people to date that they feel there are so many fish in the sea? Even on the apps everyone is so weird or not my type and when I do find a guy who seems nice and it’s my type he doesn’t match with me, or if he does, he doesn’t ask me out. (I’m aware this may seem shallow, I don’t mean to sound that way but this is not one of those scenarios of women only liking the top 2% of guys on the apps. I like a guy that looks like he would be nice and genuine and would have things to talk about…not bulky gym bros flashing their money with cars or their six packs).
My self worth is so incredibly low now to know that everyone I’ve had any sort of romantic feelings for let me go so easily but apparently thought I was such a “pretty and lovely“ girl. Obviously if they let go of me that easily then they must have no problem finding other girls who are as “pretty and lovely” as me as they say.
Where does everyone find all of these dateable people???
#relationships
source
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