How do you handle friends who it feels like pulling teeth…
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How do you handle friends who it feels like pulling teeth to make plans with?
I have a friend that I feel like I do all of the mental effort when it comes to making plans. They will suggest a vague “we should get together soon!” but I’m the one who has to actually make a direct “okay, let’s get it on the calendar.”
Then when it comes to actually formulating the plan, everything is “Im open! Whatever you wanna do! I’m flexible!” which I know on the surface sounds polite but I feel like I am doing ALL of the actual planning. It doesn’t help they go days in between responses so it feels like dragging to even get to the next step of the conversation.
How do you handle friends like this? Because there are a lot of times it makes me just want to cancel altogether.
#relationships
I have a friend that I feel like I do all of the mental effort when it comes to making plans. They will suggest a vague “we should get together soon!” but I’m the one who has to actually make a direct “okay, let’s get it on the calendar.”
Then when it comes to actually formulating the plan, everything is “Im open! Whatever you wanna do! I’m flexible!” which I know on the surface sounds polite but I feel like I am doing ALL of the actual planning. It doesn’t help they go days in between responses so it feels like dragging to even get to the next step of the conversation.
How do you handle friends like this? Because there are a lot of times it makes me just want to cancel altogether.
#relationships
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