Confronting or ending friendships quitely I have a pattern…
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Confronting or ending friendships quitely
I have a pattern where if someone hurts or wrongs me, I don’t create drama, I just quietly distance myself.
I tend to see people, especially when they’re angry, like children who can’t control their emotions.
For example, if a close friend says very hurtful things during a heated argument, I’ll respond in the moment and defend myself, then calm the situation down and say the friendship isn’t worth destroying over this.
But after that, I slowly stop talking to them and create distance.
All in all, if you aren’t comfortable to me any more and you treat me like crap I may forgive but not forget.
I also like to leave the door open until people go back to their senses.
Is that wrong or do you think direct confronting is key answer. I am not claiming to be innocent but at least when I am angry , I try to repair things.
#relationships
I have a pattern where if someone hurts or wrongs me, I don’t create drama, I just quietly distance myself.
I tend to see people, especially when they’re angry, like children who can’t control their emotions.
For example, if a close friend says very hurtful things during a heated argument, I’ll respond in the moment and defend myself, then calm the situation down and say the friendship isn’t worth destroying over this.
But after that, I slowly stop talking to them and create distance.
All in all, if you aren’t comfortable to me any more and you treat me like crap I may forgive but not forget.
I also like to leave the door open until people go back to their senses.
Is that wrong or do you think direct confronting is key answer. I am not claiming to be innocent but at least when I am angry , I try to repair things.
#relationships
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