I (34)F and a (28)M have been on three dates and have talked regularly on the phone for the past three weeks because he lives far away. The third date took a turn, he is 5’8 and I’m 5’7 and I decided to wear mini heels for a date he organized at a nice restaurant. ( I’m grateful.) However, he made a comment about me not wearing heels because of the height it made me….Plus, we were watching a movie and there was a scene of men not having shirts on and told me not to look… orange flag or is this a red flag ladies? Trying to figure out if this is wild behavior that I need to pay attention to or give it a chance. My instincts are not liking it to be honest but he is a nice guy and that’s where I’m floundering.