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Engaged but I started hating him
I am in a relationship for 6 years and engaged for about 2 years. Never told this anyone, but because I started acumullating frustrations that were not solved, now I am hating him tremendously. I just can't stand him anymore.
I do not know what to do, our family bonded together and I feel like breaking up with him would dissapoint everyone.I secretely wish he does a big mistake so that I have a reason to break up with him.
You are wondering what he does so badly that I cannot stand him. Well, he does nothing at all. He has no vicious habits, he is not violent, he is an introverted person, he is nice but I just can't stand him anymore to come home from work and to do absolutely nothing while waiting for me to do everything.
Everytime in my 2 days off I need to think what to cook, make the shopping list and then spend all my weekend cooking for the week. Then, during the week, I need to cook for his lunch package for work and all the time I need to stay with stress to always have food in the fridge.Then it is the cleaning, which he does every 2 -3 months. He only plays games and washes clothes ( but the machine does all, 1x week).
I live in a traditionalist country where people would consider I am extremely lucky and see this behaviour normal. Including my mom. She always keeps saying me to take care of him, as if he would be a god. But I am tired and feel like a sclave. As if I was born to serve men and having inherently no other value.
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I am in a relationship for 6 years and engaged for about 2 years. Never told this anyone, but because I started acumullating frustrations that were not solved, now I am hating him tremendously. I just can't stand him anymore.
I do not know what to do, our family bonded together and I feel like breaking up with him would dissapoint everyone.I secretely wish he does a big mistake so that I have a reason to break up with him.
You are wondering what he does so badly that I cannot stand him. Well, he does nothing at all. He has no vicious habits, he is not violent, he is an introverted person, he is nice but I just can't stand him anymore to come home from work and to do absolutely nothing while waiting for me to do everything.
Everytime in my 2 days off I need to think what to cook, make the shopping list and then spend all my weekend cooking for the week. Then, during the week, I need to cook for his lunch package for work and all the time I need to stay with stress to always have food in the fridge.Then it is the cleaning, which he does every 2 -3 months. He only plays games and washes clothes ( but the machine does all, 1x week).
I live in a traditionalist country where people would consider I am extremely lucky and see this behaviour normal. Including my mom. She always keeps saying me to take care of him, as if he would be a god. But I am tired and feel like a sclave. As if I was born to serve men and having inherently no other value.
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sounds like its time to grow up and realize how the world is.... and if you are working and making as much money as him, then he should share in the food prep but you have to realistically evaluate the situation with mature OPEN eyes and be thankful for what you have...
