I am friendly with everyone and is therefore friend with…
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I am friendly with everyone and is therefore friend with no one
I am a friendly positive person and talk with everyone, after a few days of talking with them, one person in the group always start badmouthing other people in the social circle behind their back, the other people in the group agrees, but I hate talking bad about people behind their back so I either stay very quiet or try to say something positive about the guy or girl being targeted by saying that is just how they are or they are probably clueless, unaware, etc.. instead of malicious. The conversation typicals die after that and gradually the group begins to distance themselves from me. It is the same with the other group with one person eventually talking bad about someone from the first group.
I talk with everyone and hear all the drama but never say anything negative about anyone, as a result both side distances themselves from me because they think I secretly don't like them and I'm left alone despite never thinking or saying any bad thing about anyone.
How do you deal with this? I know that people bond over gossip especially scientifically proven that people bond over hating the same thing, but my personally moral don't allow myself to ever say bad thing about anyone, I feel like I'm better off being a monk
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I am a friendly positive person and talk with everyone, after a few days of talking with them, one person in the group always start badmouthing other people in the social circle behind their back, the other people in the group agrees, but I hate talking bad about people behind their back so I either stay very quiet or try to say something positive about the guy or girl being targeted by saying that is just how they are or they are probably clueless, unaware, etc.. instead of malicious. The conversation typicals die after that and gradually the group begins to distance themselves from me. It is the same with the other group with one person eventually talking bad about someone from the first group.
I talk with everyone and hear all the drama but never say anything negative about anyone, as a result both side distances themselves from me because they think I secretly don't like them and I'm left alone despite never thinking or saying any bad thing about anyone.
How do you deal with this? I know that people bond over gossip especially scientifically proven that people bond over hating the same thing, but my personally moral don't allow myself to ever say bad thing about anyone, I feel like I'm better off being a monk
#relationships
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