I don't really know what else to do to socialize more.
I don't really have any friends, and my efforts to go outside and touch grass haven't really paid off. I regularly do different activities, like drawing, improv and going to the gym; and I also tried salsa. From time to time, I go to social events, like board game nights or afterworks drinks with strangers. I try to do these things regularly, even though I get tired pretty fast when there's more than 15 peoples.
The problem is that when I'm actually at these events, I feel great. I talk to people normally, we chat and sometimes laugh, everything goes well, I'm having a good time. But by the end of the event, I haven't really made any contacts, nobody i get to see again. Everyone just goes their separate ways, and that's it. I tried to set up a coffee before the drawing class, but everybody stopped after 3 times.
So I don't really feel like all these activities are helping me build actual friendships. #relationships source