Why do so many women on dating apps make no effort to get…
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Why do so many women on dating apps make no effort to get to know you?
Hello, I am a 27 year old Male. I've recently started using daying apps again after taking a break.
Obviously my experience as a heterosexual man is with woman, but im sure women here can tell me if men are the same or not.
But basically I am so frustrated with the lack of effort of women I match to even try and get to know me. Now i know most people will say my measages must be boring or something. But i always try and pick out something from there profile. Ask about it. Show intrigue etc.
But I never get asked any information about me. Ill ask the woman about her interests, hobbies etc. Or there work if it seems like something they want to talk about from their profile. But i never get anything back. I ask about their interests. They don't ask me about mine. In fact its quite rare to even be asked a single question.
I just find it so frustrating because I just don't understand how you are suppose to build and develop meaningful conversations if you are not both making an effort to get to know each other. Honestly if someone asked my about my interests or work etc id feel so rude if I didn't ask them back, I see it as common courtesy.
Like for example if i see a woman has a picture of travelling somewhere ill ask about it. Where it was. What it was like etc. If i was being asked that I would then ask them if they travel? Have they ever been there? Any places they want to go. You know that normal conversation exchange. But no. Instead id get 'yeah i went to x' I really don't understand how anyone can get anywhere with that.
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Hello, I am a 27 year old Male. I've recently started using daying apps again after taking a break.
Obviously my experience as a heterosexual man is with woman, but im sure women here can tell me if men are the same or not.
But basically I am so frustrated with the lack of effort of women I match to even try and get to know me. Now i know most people will say my measages must be boring or something. But i always try and pick out something from there profile. Ask about it. Show intrigue etc.
But I never get asked any information about me. Ill ask the woman about her interests, hobbies etc. Or there work if it seems like something they want to talk about from their profile. But i never get anything back. I ask about their interests. They don't ask me about mine. In fact its quite rare to even be asked a single question.
I just find it so frustrating because I just don't understand how you are suppose to build and develop meaningful conversations if you are not both making an effort to get to know each other. Honestly if someone asked my about my interests or work etc id feel so rude if I didn't ask them back, I see it as common courtesy.
Like for example if i see a woman has a picture of travelling somewhere ill ask about it. Where it was. What it was like etc. If i was being asked that I would then ask them if they travel? Have they ever been there? Any places they want to go. You know that normal conversation exchange. But no. Instead id get 'yeah i went to x' I really don't understand how anyone can get anywhere with that.
#relationships
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