Does too much information about a woman's past kill…
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Does too much information about a woman's past kill romantic interest?
I posted about this but I’m overthinking about this so much.
Last Saturday I went out to a bar with friends and 2 coworkers. I got pretty drunk. I ended up dancing in front of a coworker and we ended up making out. I know he was sober because he was driving that night. I remember telling him I thought he was cute, and he said I was cute too. Don’t know who initiated the kiss though. We didn’t really talk about it much after that.
On Monday, he texted me first asking how my hangover was. We talked about the night and laughed it off. At one point I joked and said I can’t continue drinking around him anymore because I’ll “keep pursuing him,” and he replied, “let’s keep drinking then.” I also told him I’m trying to find out what he’s all about and why my friend was obsessed with him. Random fact: he was talking to a friend a while back and I found out randomly. Such a small world. I also said “I do it better” he said he’s trying to find out. That was stupid of me to do.
We kept texting pretty normal talking about working out and he joked about getting buff. I said he was already fit. Then he said he might end up looking like one of my past crushes (he named him and said he was huge). He also brought up another coworker who used to be into me and had been so persistent with going out with me. Conversation got weird.
After that, I stopped replying because I suddenly felt sad and confused.
For context, I’ve actually had a crush on him for a while, but I never acted on it because he used to talk about girls he was seeing and I also talked about guys I liked, so we always kept things very casual and friendly at work. He knew when I found a guy attractive or a guy I was hooking up with. I remember I joined a dating app for a week and he knew about my stories. I think I ruined my chances.
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I posted about this but I’m overthinking about this so much.
Last Saturday I went out to a bar with friends and 2 coworkers. I got pretty drunk. I ended up dancing in front of a coworker and we ended up making out. I know he was sober because he was driving that night. I remember telling him I thought he was cute, and he said I was cute too. Don’t know who initiated the kiss though. We didn’t really talk about it much after that.
On Monday, he texted me first asking how my hangover was. We talked about the night and laughed it off. At one point I joked and said I can’t continue drinking around him anymore because I’ll “keep pursuing him,” and he replied, “let’s keep drinking then.” I also told him I’m trying to find out what he’s all about and why my friend was obsessed with him. Random fact: he was talking to a friend a while back and I found out randomly. Such a small world. I also said “I do it better” he said he’s trying to find out. That was stupid of me to do.
We kept texting pretty normal talking about working out and he joked about getting buff. I said he was already fit. Then he said he might end up looking like one of my past crushes (he named him and said he was huge). He also brought up another coworker who used to be into me and had been so persistent with going out with me. Conversation got weird.
After that, I stopped replying because I suddenly felt sad and confused.
For context, I’ve actually had a crush on him for a while, but I never acted on it because he used to talk about girls he was seeing and I also talked about guys I liked, so we always kept things very casual and friendly at work. He knew when I found a guy attractive or a guy I was hooking up with. I remember I joined a dating app for a week and he knew about my stories. I think I ruined my chances.
#relationships
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