Any hope for finding your person in 2026? Happy new year…
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Any hope for finding your person in 2026?
Happy new year everyone.
My last relationship was in the summer in 2025. She was a single mom, and had some BBD issues, so it was complicated. My longest relationship was a year and a half back in 2022-2023. Since then I really haven’t had any luck in dating.
I started talking to a woman\[34F\] a couple weeks ago, but I found out she’s asexual. And I tried to look into it and see if I could adapt to that lifestyle, but I don’t think I can if I’m being honest. And that’s okay. But it’s a bummer not because of her being an ace, but because I have to start over again.
I don’t get very many dating opportunities, I approach or send the message first sometimes, but it’s seldom worked out 2025 was super rough for me. Became a diabetic, had spine surgery, and was diagnosed with cancer, twice. Beat one of them, currently fighting the other. I’m not saying I deserve or am owed a loving relationship, but it would be very nice to have someone in my corner, and I in theirs.
The year just started, but honestly? I don’t have much hope that I’ll be successful in dating in 2026. Finding my person, having that lovely and healthy LTR. I just don’t think it’s in the cards for me. I’ve been going to the gym since mid December and I’m going to keep doing that to feel better. Other than that I have my other hobbies like playing drums and gaming to keep myself busy.
I’m trying to not imagine a future that hasn’t happened, but will I ever go on a date this year? I went on two first dates last year. At that rate, I’ll probably have 0 this year. Man this sucks :(
Multiple ppl in my life got engaged or entered a new relationship this year. I wonder if I’ll get to be as lucky :( it feels unfair.
#relationships
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Happy new year everyone.
My last relationship was in the summer in 2025. She was a single mom, and had some BBD issues, so it was complicated. My longest relationship was a year and a half back in 2022-2023. Since then I really haven’t had any luck in dating.
I started talking to a woman\[34F\] a couple weeks ago, but I found out she’s asexual. And I tried to look into it and see if I could adapt to that lifestyle, but I don’t think I can if I’m being honest. And that’s okay. But it’s a bummer not because of her being an ace, but because I have to start over again.
I don’t get very many dating opportunities, I approach or send the message first sometimes, but it’s seldom worked out 2025 was super rough for me. Became a diabetic, had spine surgery, and was diagnosed with cancer, twice. Beat one of them, currently fighting the other. I’m not saying I deserve or am owed a loving relationship, but it would be very nice to have someone in my corner, and I in theirs.
The year just started, but honestly? I don’t have much hope that I’ll be successful in dating in 2026. Finding my person, having that lovely and healthy LTR. I just don’t think it’s in the cards for me. I’ve been going to the gym since mid December and I’m going to keep doing that to feel better. Other than that I have my other hobbies like playing drums and gaming to keep myself busy.
I’m trying to not imagine a future that hasn’t happened, but will I ever go on a date this year? I went on two first dates last year. At that rate, I’ll probably have 0 this year. Man this sucks :(
Multiple ppl in my life got engaged or entered a new relationship this year. I wonder if I’ll get to be as lucky :( it feels unfair.
#relationships
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