Anyone Else Feel So Free When You Stop Caring? I don't…
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Anyone Else Feel So Free When You Stop Caring?
I don't mean in the "I couldn't care less about anything" mindset, but more when you genuinely don't let how others view you affect how you view yourself.
I used to be so hung up on being accepted, being a good social butterfly, being funny, being charismatic, etc., etc.,,, but genuinely, these past few months especially, I have just stopped thinking before I speak (good advice to overthinkers) and I just start saying whatever. Sometimes it lands, sometimes it misses...whatever!
I make the jokes that come to mind, even if they flop, they're funny to me, I start singing my sentences because that comes naturally to me, and like, yes this may come off as weird, maybe even obnoxious to some, but it's helped me find the people I actually like to spend time with.
Some people raise their brows and get turned off, and I couldn't care less! I don't know what changed but I am so happy to be free.
I guess this is less of a question but more of a celebration, I want to hear your stories too!
#relationships
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I don't mean in the "I couldn't care less about anything" mindset, but more when you genuinely don't let how others view you affect how you view yourself.
I used to be so hung up on being accepted, being a good social butterfly, being funny, being charismatic, etc., etc.,,, but genuinely, these past few months especially, I have just stopped thinking before I speak (good advice to overthinkers) and I just start saying whatever. Sometimes it lands, sometimes it misses...whatever!
I make the jokes that come to mind, even if they flop, they're funny to me, I start singing my sentences because that comes naturally to me, and like, yes this may come off as weird, maybe even obnoxious to some, but it's helped me find the people I actually like to spend time with.
Some people raise their brows and get turned off, and I couldn't care less! I don't know what changed but I am so happy to be free.
I guess this is less of a question but more of a celebration, I want to hear your stories too!
#relationships
source
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