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Am I mean?
I want to get someone else's opinion on something that happened to me today. Allow me to give the full context.
I am a school bus driver and midday I drive a van to transport a few "special" kids. I have an aide on this route who is an older lady, I will call her Gina. The person who drives the route in the morning brought in a big box of candy to give to the kids every day. Personally I don't think kids should be given candy every day as it is unhealthy but that is beside the point.
So today Gina spilled the box of candy as she was trying to hand some out to one of the kids. She then asked me "will you pick that up?" No please, no reason as to why she herself could not do it. I told her no. Was that a mean thing for me to do? I honestly think she just didn't want to do it. She is a very lazy person; overweight and often falls asleep during the trip.
I don't mind helping someone when they actually need help, or if they ask politely, but neither of those were the case here. I'm not the nicest person in the world. I will admit that. But I don't think I'm mean either. But Gina seems to think so now, as she made a few rude comments to me afterwards. Anyway, I guess I just wanted to vent a little but what do you guys think? Am I an ass-head?
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I want to get someone else's opinion on something that happened to me today. Allow me to give the full context.
I am a school bus driver and midday I drive a van to transport a few "special" kids. I have an aide on this route who is an older lady, I will call her Gina. The person who drives the route in the morning brought in a big box of candy to give to the kids every day. Personally I don't think kids should be given candy every day as it is unhealthy but that is beside the point.
So today Gina spilled the box of candy as she was trying to hand some out to one of the kids. She then asked me "will you pick that up?" No please, no reason as to why she herself could not do it. I told her no. Was that a mean thing for me to do? I honestly think she just didn't want to do it. She is a very lazy person; overweight and often falls asleep during the trip.
I don't mind helping someone when they actually need help, or if they ask politely, but neither of those were the case here. I'm not the nicest person in the world. I will admit that. But I don't think I'm mean either. But Gina seems to think so now, as she made a few rude comments to me afterwards. Anyway, I guess I just wanted to vent a little but what do you guys think? Am I an ass-head?
#relationships
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