Ignored in group chat? Hello, For a bit of context I had…
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Ignored in group chat?
Hello,
For a bit of context I had some traumatising personal stuff in my family happened that led to some friends arguing with me. I have a group chat with some of our mutual friends, some have said they’re not taking a side or not speaking to me at all and 1 still talks to me and we have plans to hang out. I’m in a group chat with the mutual friends and my own friends, and I keep being ignored on the group chat.
I feel uncomfortable messaging anything I want to message, especially about the personal situation, and deeply saddened when they all just view the message with no answer.
I don’t know whether to make a new group chat (but then I’m unsure what to do with this mutual friend that we both get along with (I don’t want to make a new one without her in case she thinks it’s personal, but then I also don’t trust her not to tell my ex friend what I say), or to confront the group chat and potentially get ignored again and get more heartbroken, or leave and lose the little community I love having, and instead DMing people?
#relationships
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Hello,
For a bit of context I had some traumatising personal stuff in my family happened that led to some friends arguing with me. I have a group chat with some of our mutual friends, some have said they’re not taking a side or not speaking to me at all and 1 still talks to me and we have plans to hang out. I’m in a group chat with the mutual friends and my own friends, and I keep being ignored on the group chat.
I feel uncomfortable messaging anything I want to message, especially about the personal situation, and deeply saddened when they all just view the message with no answer.
I don’t know whether to make a new group chat (but then I’m unsure what to do with this mutual friend that we both get along with (I don’t want to make a new one without her in case she thinks it’s personal, but then I also don’t trust her not to tell my ex friend what I say), or to confront the group chat and potentially get ignored again and get more heartbroken, or leave and lose the little community I love having, and instead DMing people?
#relationships
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