Can’t believe I’m likeable and it’s ruining my friendships…
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Can’t believe I’m likeable and it’s ruining my friendships
Since I was small i always struggled differencing between basic politeness and genuine compliments , and I for the most part go on with my life telling myself people are just polite towards me and i shouldn’t push , if someone wants to hang out with me again after a hangout i thought i was horrible in my first reflex is to think :” oh how nice of them to give me an other chance” , recently, i learned that the girl that I talk to in my classes thought i disliked her because even though i was friendly in class i always quite before she has the chance to ask me me to chill for a bit and chat , in my mind i was quitting before she had the obligation to still talk to me out of politeness
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Since I was small i always struggled differencing between basic politeness and genuine compliments , and I for the most part go on with my life telling myself people are just polite towards me and i shouldn’t push , if someone wants to hang out with me again after a hangout i thought i was horrible in my first reflex is to think :” oh how nice of them to give me an other chance” , recently, i learned that the girl that I talk to in my classes thought i disliked her because even though i was friendly in class i always quite before she has the chance to ask me me to chill for a bit and chat , in my mind i was quitting before she had the obligation to still talk to me out of politeness
#relationships
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