New trend with guys? I got out of an 8 year relationship…
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New trend with guys?
I got out of an 8 year relationship almost 3 years ago and ever since I have been in the dating scene I have noticed how much things have changed. Everything now is so surface level and fake.
The most common thing that I’ve seen is meeting guys out or even going on a first date and having chemistry and good convo and them talking about future plans together. It doesnt even have to be anything crazy or dramatic…just like “oh you want to see that movie?…we can go this week” or “i wanna take you to my favorite restaurant next time” and then literally they disappear or they might keep talking to you but not making any set plans to see you?
It’s almost like men figured out they dont even need to do the dates or any of the things to court women…they realized its enough for then to just talk about it and seem sincere and women will think “wow he wants to make plans with me and is excited to see me again.” I guess this is just a way to try and hook up?
Just the past couple months I have met 3 guys I was genuinely interested in seeing again that approached me and asked for my number and talked to me all night and said they want to take me out and then I just never hear from them again?
I’m not even sure if Im ranting or want advice. I just think that I am such a self aware person and usually have a good gauge if someone is genuinely vibing and into me and nowadays I feel so fooled every time. It’s just so hard to feel a connection and then you finally do and they seem to be on the same page…but then I guess they were lying? I have no idea but it sucks and Im just sad today.
Any feedback or similar stories would be appreciated
#relationships
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I got out of an 8 year relationship almost 3 years ago and ever since I have been in the dating scene I have noticed how much things have changed. Everything now is so surface level and fake.
The most common thing that I’ve seen is meeting guys out or even going on a first date and having chemistry and good convo and them talking about future plans together. It doesnt even have to be anything crazy or dramatic…just like “oh you want to see that movie?…we can go this week” or “i wanna take you to my favorite restaurant next time” and then literally they disappear or they might keep talking to you but not making any set plans to see you?
It’s almost like men figured out they dont even need to do the dates or any of the things to court women…they realized its enough for then to just talk about it and seem sincere and women will think “wow he wants to make plans with me and is excited to see me again.” I guess this is just a way to try and hook up?
Just the past couple months I have met 3 guys I was genuinely interested in seeing again that approached me and asked for my number and talked to me all night and said they want to take me out and then I just never hear from them again?
I’m not even sure if Im ranting or want advice. I just think that I am such a self aware person and usually have a good gauge if someone is genuinely vibing and into me and nowadays I feel so fooled every time. It’s just so hard to feel a connection and then you finally do and they seem to be on the same page…but then I guess they were lying? I have no idea but it sucks and Im just sad today.
Any feedback or similar stories would be appreciated
#relationships
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