Does anyone else assume people secretly don’t want to be…
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Does anyone else assume people secretly don’t want to be friends with yourself?
I was getting pretty close in class with someone last semester (we talked and text each other sometimes), the person even added me to his close friends list on ig and send me reels. I consider him as a friend now.But we didn't meet or talk at all after in winter break, I feel bad bothering the person and stuff and I feel too much anxiety if i need to reach out first, even in real life. But now, I feel like he hates me and I don't want the person to hate me coz I genuinely want to be friends.
Now I feel weird (not exactly horrible/sad) bcs he removed me from his close friends list and stop sending reels. I feel like I keep doing this thing where I assume people don't want to be friends with me until they actually approach me, and even if that happens, I'm not sure if they actually wanna me friends with me or hate me.
I get so sad when I have no friends but at the same time making friends just give me the extreme anxiety and overthinking burden, especially with all the other ongoing burdens I already have in college.
Idk how should I feel, and any solutions for this?
#relationships
I was getting pretty close in class with someone last semester (we talked and text each other sometimes), the person even added me to his close friends list on ig and send me reels. I consider him as a friend now.But we didn't meet or talk at all after in winter break, I feel bad bothering the person and stuff and I feel too much anxiety if i need to reach out first, even in real life. But now, I feel like he hates me and I don't want the person to hate me coz I genuinely want to be friends.
Now I feel weird (not exactly horrible/sad) bcs he removed me from his close friends list and stop sending reels. I feel like I keep doing this thing where I assume people don't want to be friends with me until they actually approach me, and even if that happens, I'm not sure if they actually wanna me friends with me or hate me.
I get so sad when I have no friends but at the same time making friends just give me the extreme anxiety and overthinking burden, especially with all the other ongoing burdens I already have in college.
Idk how should I feel, and any solutions for this?
#relationships
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