Getting called out for interrupting a conversation I’ve…
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Getting called out for interrupting a conversation
I’ve noticed something in social situations aka group dynamics and I’m curious if someone can analyze or explain this:
Sometimes a person joins a conversation and interrupts before the other people have finished speaking. In some cases, one of the participants immediately calls them out and says something like, “Hold on, we weren’t finished talking yet” “we are in a conversation”.
But I’ve also seen other people do exactly the same thing and nobody seems to mind. They jump into the conversation, even take over, and get away with it without any negative reaction or being called out.
Why does this happen? Because I had this couple of times while I see other guys didn’t had this reaction.
Because from what I personally experienced is that the person who called me out, didn’t spoke to me afterwards leaving a bad impression of this person.
Is it about social status, confidence, attractiveness, how well people know each other, timing, body language, or something else entirely?
Have you ever noticed that the same behavior is judged differently depending on who does it? How can I defend myself against people who want to portray me as rude?
#relationships
I’ve noticed something in social situations aka group dynamics and I’m curious if someone can analyze or explain this:
Sometimes a person joins a conversation and interrupts before the other people have finished speaking. In some cases, one of the participants immediately calls them out and says something like, “Hold on, we weren’t finished talking yet” “we are in a conversation”.
But I’ve also seen other people do exactly the same thing and nobody seems to mind. They jump into the conversation, even take over, and get away with it without any negative reaction or being called out.
Why does this happen? Because I had this couple of times while I see other guys didn’t had this reaction.
Because from what I personally experienced is that the person who called me out, didn’t spoke to me afterwards leaving a bad impression of this person.
Is it about social status, confidence, attractiveness, how well people know each other, timing, body language, or something else entirely?
Have you ever noticed that the same behavior is judged differently depending on who does it? How can I defend myself against people who want to portray me as rude?
#relationships
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