Keep repeating the same dating pattern and I’m tired I’m…
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Keep repeating the same dating pattern and I’m tired
I’m 29F and I keep noticing this same pattern in dating and I honestly don’t know what’s going on anymore.
I meet someone, we go on a few dates, things feel normal in the beginning, there’s effort, it’s fine. Then after a few weeks or like 2 months the energy just drops. Texting slows down, plans get vague, and then it either fades or turns into ghosting.
This time it was like 5 dates over 2 months. It felt okay at first but then suddenly he just went low effort and now he’s basically gone quiet after even normal texts.
I’m not super attached to him because I don’t really let myself get attached like that anymore. Because eventually it just ends up hurting anyway.
But even then it’s just exhausting because it keeps happening in the same way.
Either it ends after 1 date or it slowly dies after a couple months. Nothing really moves forward.
Just wondering if this is actually normal or if I’m missing something here.
#relationships
I’m 29F and I keep noticing this same pattern in dating and I honestly don’t know what’s going on anymore.
I meet someone, we go on a few dates, things feel normal in the beginning, there’s effort, it’s fine. Then after a few weeks or like 2 months the energy just drops. Texting slows down, plans get vague, and then it either fades or turns into ghosting.
This time it was like 5 dates over 2 months. It felt okay at first but then suddenly he just went low effort and now he’s basically gone quiet after even normal texts.
I’m not super attached to him because I don’t really let myself get attached like that anymore. Because eventually it just ends up hurting anyway.
But even then it’s just exhausting because it keeps happening in the same way.
Either it ends after 1 date or it slowly dies after a couple months. Nothing really moves forward.
Just wondering if this is actually normal or if I’m missing something here.
#relationships
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