All good except initiation I’m a 24F and I’ve been dating…
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All good except initiation
I’m a 24F and I’ve been dating a guy for about a month and a half now. We started out pretty strong on the initiation front on his end for the first three dates and the last three dates (6 dates total) it’s been either me initiating or a combined push on my end and follow through on his end for the date to happen. He seems to be really into me otherwise. We call on the occasion and most of our dates have been all day type dates with lots of cuddling and talking. I try not to value texting too much but he’s good about reaching out to me to wish me a nice day and I reciprocate there. He also has been sweet in other ways through helping my clean my house and bringing me sweets. He also initiates plans for ideas to do together but then just doesn’t take the next step of asking me when I would want to do that.
I’m generally a pretty anxious person so I can’t tell if it’s just me or what. I could talk to him about it but I have a lot of fear and apprehension after talks have gone badly in early dating for me. He’s always warm to me in person and over text it never feels dismissive but just never overly initiative. I’m happy to initiate 50/50 but lately it hasn’t felt like the case. I guess yes technically he initiated the first three and I’ll take credit for the next three making 50/50 but I guess I just want a little more pursuit this early on in the dating stage. Maybe he’s comfortable or maybe he’s just not that into me.
In my head it’s like if he wants to see me he would but also life happens and maybe he is thinking the same of me and we’re just mirroring each other lol
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I’m a 24F and I’ve been dating a guy for about a month and a half now. We started out pretty strong on the initiation front on his end for the first three dates and the last three dates (6 dates total) it’s been either me initiating or a combined push on my end and follow through on his end for the date to happen. He seems to be really into me otherwise. We call on the occasion and most of our dates have been all day type dates with lots of cuddling and talking. I try not to value texting too much but he’s good about reaching out to me to wish me a nice day and I reciprocate there. He also has been sweet in other ways through helping my clean my house and bringing me sweets. He also initiates plans for ideas to do together but then just doesn’t take the next step of asking me when I would want to do that.
I’m generally a pretty anxious person so I can’t tell if it’s just me or what. I could talk to him about it but I have a lot of fear and apprehension after talks have gone badly in early dating for me. He’s always warm to me in person and over text it never feels dismissive but just never overly initiative. I’m happy to initiate 50/50 but lately it hasn’t felt like the case. I guess yes technically he initiated the first three and I’ll take credit for the next three making 50/50 but I guess I just want a little more pursuit this early on in the dating stage. Maybe he’s comfortable or maybe he’s just not that into me.
In my head it’s like if he wants to see me he would but also life happens and maybe he is thinking the same of me and we’re just mirroring each other lol
#relationships
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