I have hard time understanding social situations and clues can someone please help?
I (in my 20s) have very underdeveloped social skills and I find it hard to understand social cues especially when it comes to ppl
For example my big brother and I were at someone's wedding when a guy said something that seemed completely normal to me but my brother stopped him and told him to stop messing with me and till this day I have no idea why my brother said that. same thing happens in many other situations sometimes I'll say something or someone will make a passive comment about me. and they and the ppl around them will laugh I can tell they're laughing at me and it feels like the comment was meant to make fun of me but the problem is i have no idea whether they're actually being mean or if I'm just being too paranoid
So can someone please tell me what I should do in these kinds of situations or how I can get better at understanding them? #relationships source