Do other people have to think to use their social skills?
"What to do in a social situation? How to respond to subtle unspoken cues?" Do other people have to think about these things, or is it just me?
For example, when somebody is feeling a little uncomfortable, to notice that I'll have to look for social cues that tell me that he/she is uncomfortable. Then I'll have to think how to respond. It doesn't come very naturally to me. I have to put in some amount of active thinking. Does this mean that I'm autistic or something like that? Or am I just socially inept? #relationships